Christians are often asked to pray for any variety of needs and requests by friends, family members, and others. While praying for this or that, one may be wondering “Is there a better way?” ….
There’s a dual challenge when friends and family members ask us to pray for them or some specific circumstances surrounding their life, whether it be about a job, a home, a broken relationship, a work situation, finances, etc. One challenge is to actually remember to pray. The other challenge is in actually knowing what or how to pray for others ….
While we’re sometimes satisfied just remembering to pray for someone, many of us are guilty of defaulting to a simple prayer like any of the following:
“Dear God, help ____ do well in that interview and get that job.”
“Dear Lord, please help ____ get their home offer accepted (or loan approved, or application accepted, etc.)”
“Dear Lord, help ____ and ____ in their marriage relationship.”
“Dear God, give ____ strength in handling her difficult co-worker.”
“Dear God, help ____ with their finances and provide for their financial needs.”
Amen and amen …. Job done, right?
Beyond the Lord’s Prayer, is there another practical praying approach actually modeled for us in the Bible? Is there a better way to go about this and avoid feeling that our prayers are trite and superficial?
Well, yes and yes. The Apostle Paul, in his letter to the Ephesians, demonstrated a very powerful way to pray that is a significant shift from the way that most of us go about praying today. The shift is doable for all, yet profoundly different in approach and impact. Let’s look at that a moment, shall we?
In Chapters 1 and 3 of his extensive letter to the growing church of Christians in Ephesus (written sometime between A.D. 60-62), Paul reveals his praying thoughts and thus leaves us a wonderful model of how one might pray and petition God on behalf others in need or per their request. Here are the passages:
“Wherefore I also, after I heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all God’s people, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know Him better. I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which He has called you, the riches of His glorious inheritance in His holy people, and His incomparably great power for us who believe.” (Ephesians 1:15-19)
“I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge — that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” (Ephesians 3:16-19)
This letter and these prayers are specifically directed toward fellow believing Christians. I would maintain however that the principles at work here can be applied to anyone in your circle of influence regardless of their faith, stature, or even their needs or their experiences …..
You may be thinking, “well, what’s he actually saying?” One can net out Paul’s prayer as follows:
* his heart is thankful for the person/target of his prayer …
* he requests that they receive the wisdom and knowledge of God to know Him better
that their eyes and their heart will be enlightened (no denial) of the hope God has for them, the glorious future, and the incredible power available to those who believe …
* that God will strengthen them internally through the power of the Holy Ghost …
* that Christ will reside, through faith, in their hearts, and that they will be grounded in Christian love and empowered to grasp the full scope of the love of Christ, even as it is incomprehensible …
* that they will be filled to capacity with the fullness of God ….
“Wow,” you might be saying to yourself. “I thought I’d just pray that they do well in that job interview next week!” ….
I do believe that most of us misunderstand or underestimate the full capacity, power and impact we each have as children of the Living God. The power of prayer is a force to be reckoned with ….
The releasing of the Holy Ghost, (the Helper/power from on high) that Jesus Himself promised to His followers (Luke 24:49) is available to all of us who believe and call Him Lord. Without the power and urgings of the Holy Ghost we have no true inkling of how to effectively be praying for our brothers and sisters …
Given that, we actually have unrestricted capacities of strength, power, wisdom, faith, and love to go forth in this corrupted world with heads held high in boldness and confidence. Positioned as empowered followers of God with literal access through prayer to His guidance and directed purpose for our lives and potentially those around us, we should have a completely new perspective on who we are and what we’re doing when we are asked to pray for another ….
Therefore, when we consider those around us in prayer, elevate your vision and pray that they too receive the Holy Ghost and all that it encompasses, so that then our petitions for cares and needs in this life will be seen in light of a Holy God “who by the power at work within us is able to do far more abundantly than all we ask or think.” (Ephesians 3:20)
Do you pray for others like that? Do you want to?
Be specific. Pray the Word. Be an encourager today, and no matter whom God places in your path — whether it be through a superficial conversation, an intense specific request for prayer, or just a gentle nudging from the Holy Ghost without even any conversation; be mindful of the promptings to pray, even without being asked. We need not know what a specific need or request is when we pray if we pray the Word over any given situation ….
That’s the beauty of the Holy Ghost, Who knows all things and exactly what areas of our lives need intercession. As it is written: “Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. And He that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because He maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God. And we know all things work together for good to them that are called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:26-28).
Walk in the Spirit. Pray in the Spirit. Pray without ceasing, as we are instructed. You don’t need an invitation to pray, nor do we need a specific request when we are praying in the Holy Ghost. If you will begin to make prayer an integral part of your whole day, you will begin to witness your life change and take on a new power in all of your affairs. May this be the day that you become that prayer warrior that you have been called to be, standing in the gap interceding for your friends and family. There is no human power on earth to rival the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man or woman of faith. Rise up Warriors — it’s time to pray …..
O God, I thank You for revealing the real meaning of love through sacrifice in your Son, Jesus. As I approach this new day, help me to love You and keep Your commandments above all. Help me show love, even if it requires sacrifice, and may my obedience be without question the very best offering this day ….
As the sun rises with a beauty that reveals Your love for all of creation, help me greet the day and be an expression of love to all I would encounter ….
Empower me to pass on the teachings of the faith to others, through my words and deeds, that they may come to know and obey God. Through Christ I pray.